Welcome to Whatever She Wants

 I can be more than one thing- and I wanted a place where I could share all of them, unapologetically.

I like to talk about my experience with therapy; journaling, pattern recognition, boundaries, and personal growth. I practice tarot, keep houseplants, and create art- sometimes with food, sometimes with my body. My favorite place in the world is on a stage, and under a spotlight.

  • The goal I had in mind in creating this site was simple:

    “To create a place on the internet, where I could be all parts of me, unapologetically, organized in...

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  • Is she a Stripper, or is she a Chef? Why not both?

    Once upon a time, I was on a reality tv cooking competition, and what do you know, I won...

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  • My Best Stripper Self- The Power of Patterns

    I wrote a book for Strippers to enhance their experience in clubs, and create longevity in their careers.

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Take What You Need:

A collection of tools that have been helpful for me, so I am happy to share them with you.

Affirmative Coffee Cups

Practice your affirmations with your morning coffee.

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